Yesterday we went for professional photo-taking session to take pictures of my big tummy, since this is going to be my last pregnancy.
Some of u start asking me, "Are you sure you dun want to have the 3rd kid? You like kids a lot!", "What if this turns out to be a boy again? Don't you want to try for a girl"?
First of all, thanks for your concerns...
Secondly, let me share with you the reasons why I intend to stop at two:
1) Being pregnant is NOT that fun... Only those who have experienced it knows what I mean
2) I do not want to 'try ' for 3rd kid, just to 'gamble' for its gender.
3) Heavy monetary investments, without expecting any ROI...statistics show that 20years later, university education for each kid = SGD100k. We don't own a bank
4) Endless physically straining (especially the first few cranky years), and mentally stressed/worrying
So for those who are :
1) Single : Enjoy your days while you can!
2) Married / No kids yet : No need to get affected by peer/family pressure.
People ask me when am I going to have #2, when I happily have one.
People ask me when am I going to have a girl, when we cannot choose the gender of the baby.
3) Mothers : let's enjoy motherhood together and cherish our moments with our children, before they have their own friends and don’t want to us to fuss over them anymore...
While I seem to be complaining, I will admit that Motherhood is really a unique experience that you cannot buy with money. However, you need to seek balances in life and have a positive thinking towards it.
Every kid is special and needs our attention and love. I love my LeLe a lot and he gives me a more positive and meaningful outlook in life. I'm also grateful to GOD for letting me conceive 'very easily' and is looking forward towards the birth of my 2nd baby. Meanwhile, I shall enjoy my last weeks of pregnancy…
Back to the photos, they will be ready in 1 week time. Realize that LeLe really has my genes – He Loves to pose! I have also mustered courage to take a few shots of the famous Demi-Moore pose. ;) So stay tuned!
5 comments:
So cool! I cant wait to see the pictures!!!
in case you are wondering... yellow daffodils is Siok Kia ;p
I wanna see the pictures too! Hot mummy! ~Zeon
ok ok ...at first i was wondering who is yellowdaffodils... ;p
anyway,just told my dear mummy that i took the 'half-naked' poses,,and was 'scolded' like hell...hahaha...
Pictures will be ready in another week time... still got to wait ;0
I was told that it's the in-thing in Beijing. Pete's assistant also took similar pics.. and Pete wasnt sure if he should be looking at them ;p
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